The Positive Meanings of Love

We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.

Love means that I know the person I love. I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.

Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the other person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of us. If I care about you, I'm concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become. Consequently, I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times.

Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I expect you to be for me. I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own needs.

Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person. This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for you. It does mean acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your suffering. A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you.

Love means making a commitment to the person I love. This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, struggle, and despair, as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.

Love means trusting the person I love. If I love you, I trust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt me. I trust that you will find me attractive, and that you won't abandon me; I trust the mutual nature of our love. If we trust each other, we are willing to be open to each other and reveal our true selves.

Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times when I am bored, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times I feel I can't move forward. Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness. I can stay during rough times, however, because I can remember what we had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through. We agree with the idea that love is a spirit that changes life. Love is a way of life that is creative and that transforms. However, love is not reserved for a perfect world. Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go wrong. Love is meant to be a spirit that works in painful situations. Love is meant to bring meaning into life where nonsense appears to rule. In other words, love comes into an imperfect world to make it possible to live.

Love is open. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships. Although our love for each other and our commitment to each other might prohibit certain actions on our parts, we are not totally and exclusively married to each other. It is a false love that cements one person to another in such a way that he or she is not given room to grow.

Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, and respect myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is my emptiness. If I feel that I'm complete and worthwhile in myself, then I'm able to give to you out of my fullness. One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with you.

Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. By taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better.

To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one's individuality. In love, two beings become one and yet remain two.

爱的真谛

我们想把我们对爱情的一些积极看法跟大家分享。

爱就意味着了解所爱的人。能够认识到这个人多个方面——不仅仅是美好的一面，还有他的局限，他的矛盾之处和他的缺点。要看到对方的情感、思想，感觉他的内心，要能够透过他在社交场合的表现和他的社会角色而看到他内心的深处。

爱就意味着关心所爱之人的幸福。事实上，爱不是占有，也不是束缚。相反，两人都在爱中得到自由。关心一个人就是关心他的成长，希望他可以成为最好的他。因此，我不会为他的个人发展设置障碍，即使这样有时使我难受。

爱就意味着尊重所爱之人。爱一个人，就是将其卸任一个独立的人，有自己的价值观、思想和感情。我不会为自己而坚持要他放弃个性变成我所希望的他。我能允许，也鼓励他我行我素，成为他自己。我不会视他为物，或利用他主要来满足自己的需要。

爱就意味着对所爱之人负责。爱一个人，就要对他作为独立个体的需求做出回应。这种负责并不包括替他做他可以自己做到的事，也不是操纵他的生活。这种负责是承认我的所作所为会影响到他，他的欢乐痛苦都与我直接相关。相爱者确有伤害或忽略所爱的人的能力。从这个意义上说，我们认为，爱就要为自己的行为对对方产生的影响承担某种责任。

爱就意味着对所爱之人做出承诺。这种承诺并非意味着把自己完全交给对方，也并不是说这一关系必然是天长地久，这种承诺否认在平静愉快时，还是困苦挣扎、失意绝望时，都愿意厮守相伴。

爱就意味着信赖所爱之人。爱一个人，就要相信他会接受我的关心，接受我的爱，相信他不会故意伤害我；相信他会认为平静愉快有吸引力，相信他不会抛弃我；相信爱是相互的。如果我们彼此信赖，我们就愿彼此坦诚相待，敞开心扉。

爱能够容忍不完美。爱人之间也会有时感到厌倦，有时想放弃，有时感到压力，有时感到无法前进。真正的爱并不意味着永远的幸福。但是，在困难时期我能坚守，因为我仍记得我们共同度过的日子，我也能想象如果我们愿意面对我们之间的问题、渡过难关、我们将共同拥有什么样的未来。我们一致认为爱是一种能改变人生的精神。爱是一种生活方式，它具有创造和改变的力量。但是爱并不是为完善世界而存在的，爱本来就是我们这个不完美、有缺陷的世界而存在的。爱应该是一种能缓解痛苦的精神力量。爱应该给我们这无聊的生活带来意义。换言之，是爱使我们能够在这不完美的世界上生活下去。

爱是包容的。爱一个人，就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。尽管对彼此的爱与承诺不允许我们有某些行为，这种结合也不是全然排他的。两个人密不可分，再无个人发展的余地，这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。

爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊，才能接受别人。如果自己空虚，那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空虚。如果认为自己是充实的、出色的，那么我就能以自己的充实为所爱之人增光，给对方以爱的最好方法之一就是与所爱之人一起充分体验自己。

爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个人，在接受今日的他的同时，还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人静止不变，则令其退步，而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力已经发挥，则助其进步。

总而言之，成熟的爱就是在保持个体独立条件下的双方结合。在爱情中，两个人变成了一个人同时还保持着两个独立的个体。

求一篇关于大学爱情的英语作文。

大学校园中的恋爱情况，我们已经司空见惯。

Love in university campus, we have It is quite common for.首先，我要说一下大学生恋爱的现状。

First of all, I want to say about the situation of College Students' love.1、恋爱年龄小，从大一就开始盛行了；1, love is the age of small, popular from the start;2、恋爱公开化，和高中时期不同，现在的我们都喜欢将自己的男（女）朋友公之于众，国家都允许大学生结婚，学校怎么还会管这么多；2, love the open, and in high school, now we all love your male (female) friends toreveal to the public, countries allow college students to get married, how can so many school tube;3、恋爱成活率低，悲剧增多。

由于大学缺乏经济基础和未来的一定性，恋爱走入婚姻的机率较低。

有部分大学生不会处理学业和恋爱的关系，爱情至上，厌学、旷课现象增多，严重的甚至不能顺利毕业，耽误了自己的美好前程。

也有的大学生社会阅历浅，心理承受能力弱，而期望值又高，易冲动，一旦失恋或受到打击，往往造成爱情悲剧。

伤害对方的有之；自杀的有之；精神分裂的有之；厌恶俗世、破罐破摔的亦有之。

因此，我们需要理性的认识大学恋爱。

3, the low survival rate of increase of love, tragedy. Due to the lack of economic foundation and a qualitative University future, love marriage low probability. Some students can not deal with academic and love relationship, love first, increasedweariness, truancy phenomenon, serious can't even graduate, delayed his bright future. Also some social experience shallow, the psychology bearing capacity is weak, and expectations are high, easy impulse, once the romance or hit, often caused the tragedy of love. Hurt each other with the Dutch act; have;schizophrenia is earthly, Poguanposhuai; aversion to also have. Therefore, we need a rational understanding of love in the university.我要说一下大学生恋爱的利弊。

就个体而言，恋爱对青年的心里成熟有着促进的作用，有些心理学家认为，恋爱是青春晚期和成年早期最重要的事件，只有经过了恋爱，人才会真正成熟起来。

不过，恋爱的意义虽有积极的一面，有时也会危害青年的心理健康。

恋爱中的起起伏伏造成了心理上的大起大落，承受的压力可想而知，在座的各位有些人一定也森有体会。

I have to say about the advantages and disadvantages of College Students' love.Individually, love has a promoting effect on young heart mature, some psychologists say, love is a late adolescence and early adulthood, the most important event, only through love, people will truly mature. However, the meaning of love is a positive side, sometimes harm youth mental health. The love of the ups and downs caused change radically the psychological pressure to bear, one can imagine, all of you present here some people must also have experience of Sen.大学生恋爱是一把双刃剑，既有优点，又有缺点。

我们应该让它的有利影响变大，不利影响减到最小。

College Students' love is a double-edged sword, has both advantages, and disadvantages. We should let its beneficial effects become larger, adverse effectsto a minimum.

求关于爱情的英语作文

A fairy taleA girl and a boy were on a motorcycle, speeding through the night. they loved each other a lot.. girl:＂ Slow down a little.. I'm scared..＂ boy: ＂no, it's so fun..＂ girl: ＂please... it's so scary..＂ boy: ＂then say that you love me..＂ girl: ＂fine..i love you..can you slow down now?＂ boy: ＂give me a big hug..＂ the girl gave him a big hug. girl: ＂now can you slow down?＂ boy: ＂can you take off my helmet and put it on? it's uncomfortable and? It's bothering me while i drive.＂ the next day, there was a story in the newspaper. a motorcycle had crashed into a building because its brakes were broken. there were two people on the motorcycle, of which one died, and the other had survived... the guy knew that the brakes were broken. he didn\'t want to let the girl know, because he knew that the girl would have gotten scared. instead, he was told the last time that she loved him, got a hug from her,put his helmet on her so that she can live, and die himself... once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale... 我也不知道你多大，也不知道合不合适。

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英语情书范文

From see you one eye, I shit love you. 自从看到你的第一眼，我便爱上你。

Your eyes close,I die;your eyes open,I come back to live.你的眼睛闭上，我就死了；你的眼睛打开，我又活过来；May be you do not remember me,no matter.When you carefully look at me,you will one see clock. 也许你不记得我，没有关系。

当你仔细看着我，你就会一见钟情。

Like Your people喜欢你的人 情书2.Dear Mine: Just for one reason, I love you so much. Nothing is impossible to a willing mind, love included. Therefore, day after day, I wonder why, I wonder how, I wonder where you are. Time to go, I want to tell you how much I feel, and how much I love you. When I think of you, the miles between us disappear. Seeing you will cause me an indescribable thrill, even at the sight of your handwriting will make me tremble. And the wonderful times we shared together shall always remain in my heart. You are my little angel. Just having you close fills me with love and hope; nothing is impossible by your side. It is only when I nearly lose you that I become fully conscious of how much I value you. Accordingly, I would say, “I love you” for millions and billions of times, and times and times again. Everything comes and goes, but love stays. When you need someone, remember that I'd be there. If I were in heaven, I'd write your name on every star for all to see just how much you mean to me. No matter how long the road may be in the future, please cherish every moment we shared together. No matter how many years will pass away, please treasure our love till the last day. Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. 我亲爱的， 你知道， 每个早晨当我醒来的时候， 第一件事物我必须做想到你。

你知道 ， 每个夜晚当我上床睡觉的时候， 我仅仅只去我的梦被埋首于想念你。

当我袖手旁观我的窗户的时候， 总是有我想要对你倒的这么多字。

但是我知道我有太少时间做这。

即使你每个夜晚在教室中只有少数步骤之远在我旁边坐下，我必须控制我感觉。

此外，像这一封信，虽然我不愿表达这一种方式的我的情绪， 但是我没有时间和没有选择选择。

我知道你是一个胆怯的女孩， 你需要时间使你自己配合彻底地接受我和我们的爱。

但是， 对于我的部份， 我总是渴望获得交谈式，确定的和稳定的爱充满的强烈感情尽快地。

因此我， 也许疏忽你感觉，和你在手臂中总是为步行手臂想喝，甚至有热拥抱的一个奢侈希望， 使一个亲密的吻相等。

也许这面对爱只是男孩和女孩之间的不同。

再一次， 所有我的忧虑不是适当的到害怕你将会对其他人的你的心改变， 至少， 它现在似乎是没有对抗我的对手， 但是适当的烦恼我无法在我一定尽力完成我的梦的这个特别的时期带快乐给你。

因此，也许，如时间消逝，我害怕我将是像无感情的和烦乱的，易怒的和脆弱的一个人。

我希望你可以为它表示你的理解和同情。

我有一个梦天我们可以一起没有想到任何的烦恼停留， 每天仅仅平静地而且温和地停留一起整个，看一些电影或者听一些音乐像我们一样的很多喜欢。

我的如此字的目的被让你知道我爱你多少，我想要和你分享多少快乐！ 我相信视野对于治疗， 虽然仍然远， 比较明亮！3.You know my heart; you know that all there is desire, thought, boding and longing; you live among spirits and they give you divine wisdom. You must nourish me; you give all that in advance, which I do not understand to ask for. My mind has a small embrace, my love a large one; you must bring them to a balance. Love cannot be quiet till the mind matches its growth; you are matched to my love; you are friendly, kind, and indulgent; let me know when my heart is off the balance. I understand your silent signs A look from your eyes into mine, a kiss from you upon my lips, instructs me in all, what might seem delighted to learn, - to one who, like me, had experience from those. I am far from you; mine are become strange to me. I must ever return in thought to that hour when you hold me in the soft fold of your arm. Then I begin to weep, but the tears dry again unawares. Yes, he reaches with his love (thus I think) over to me in this concealed stillness; and should not I, with my eternal undisturbed loving, reach to him in the distance? Ah, conceive what my heart has to say to you; it overflows with soft sighs all whisper to you. Be my only happiness on earth your friendly will to me. O, dear friend, give me but a sign that you are conscious of me. 你知道我的心；你知道我心里惟有的愿望、思念、预兆和渴求；你生活在幽灵之中，他们给你以神灵的智慧。

你一定要给我以＂营养＂。

你已经事先就给了我那些我不懂得去要求的东西。

虽说我的才智小，但我的爱情甚深；你一定要平衡这两方面。

在理智跟不上爱情的发展时，爱不能平静。

你知道我有多爱你；你友善、温存、宽厚。

告诉我，什么时候我的心失去了平衡。

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关于爱情观的英语作文

介我拿手~~~ When the conversation comes to love, it always raise the biggest emotion, reaction and passion.But,What is love?＂Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person. ＂This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic ＂just isn't there＂ anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.The key word is passivity. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise ＂The Art of Loving,＂ noted the sad consequence of this misconception: ＂There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love.＂ (That was back in 1956 -- chances are he'd be even more pessimistic today.)So what is real, lasting love?Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.LOVE IS A CHOICEIf love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn't just happen -- you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, you'll love easily.ACTIONS AFFECT FEELINGSNow that you're feeling so warmly toward the entire human race, how can you deepen your love for someone? The way God created us, actions affect our feelings most. For example, if you want to become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start, but giving tzedaka (charity) will get you there. Likewise, the best way to feel loving is to be loving -- and that means giving. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving. 1. Say it. When you say the words ＂I Love You＂, they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person. 2. Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well. 3. Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person's life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally. 4. Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way. 5. Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them. 6. Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love. You must love yourself before you can love another. But before you can love yourself, you must know and understand yourself profoundly. This deep understanding of yourself will automatically lead you to love yourself (since you will become aware of your divine essence) and you will also love every other person at that same moment (because you will recognize that same divine essence in every other person). The above is what I think about LOVE.

要一篇写信的英语文章

【给老师和同学的】：Dear Teachers and Classmates,First of all, please allow me to say 'Thank you' to all of you. It is very kind of you to spare your valuable time during the period of final examinations and come to see me.Your visit has given me much confidence and power to overcome the illness. When I first came to the hospital, I really felt lonely and did not have enough courage and confidence to overcome the illness. Your visit has made me feel that I am not poor and lonely in the world and in fact I am living in a world of love, which has brought me much confidence and power to overcome the illness.These days, my condition has been obviously improved due to the careful treatment offered by doctors and nurses. Doctors have told me that I will completely recover from illness in two weeks. I hope that I can see you earlier.Again, special thanks go to all of you.Sincerely Yours（来自：http://rain9118.bokee.com/viewdiary.10348177.html）这里有很多英语书信范文--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------【给朋友的】：Dear David, I'm glad you'll come to Beijing to learn Chinese. Chinese is very useful, and many foreigners are learning it now. It's difficult for you because it's quite different from English. You have to remember as many Chinese words as possible. It's also important to do some reading and writing. You can watch TV and listen to the radio to practise your listening. Do your best to talk with people in Chinese. You can learn Chinese not only from books but also from people around you. If you have any questions, please ask me. I'm sure you'll learn Chinese well. Hope to see you soon in Beijing. Yours, Wang Ming （来自：http://www.engessay.com/zhongkao/221915446.html）

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